Soulmates: How to know for sure, if you’ve met your soulmate.

Have you ever had the experience of meeting someone, and thinking “I feel like I already know this person?” It isn’t your imagination, It probably means you’ve met a soulmate.

The fact is that we’ve lived several lives, and have had several different kinds of relationships with many people. Some of which we have reincarnated with in this lifetime. These soulmates don’t always have to be lovers, or romantic relationships, they can also be friendships, or even people that that we just can’t quite build a friendship with.

I’ve found that there are two types of soulmates.

Level One-  This is what is considered on this side to be your one and only soulmate or “Twin Soul.” This is someone who you meet and cannot live without. Typically these relationships start out mild, and become intense very quickly.  You won’t feel the connection until you really open up to this person and they open up to you. Your connection with this person is very intense. It feels like this person is apart of your soul in some way. It feels like you just can’t seem to get close enough to this person. Everyone has one level one soulmate somewhere in the universe.

Level Two- These soulmates can play many different roles in your life. These would be considered people of your soul family; people that you reincarnate with again, and again. In this lifetime, they could have reincarnated as brothers, sisters, fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, friends, and spouses. These individuals usually come back with you to help you learn what you are supposed to learn, in some way. Most of the time, they feel very familiar to us, as if we had met them before. In a lot of cases, they work out very well as romantic relationships. It just depends on the intention of the relationship, and what you came into this world to learn with them.

If you’ve met someone and you feel like they could be a soulmate, you are probably right. Our gut instincts are our strongest indicator of the soul’s truth!

Here are some signs that you have met an actual soulmate:

1. You feel like you already know them.

2. You are comfortable around them automatically.

3. The energy between you seems very easy going, you aren’t in a rush to get to know this person.

4. Coincidences of situations in life. It may feel like you’ve been living parallel lives.

5. Generally, these soulmates appear in a more mature phase of life.

6. Don’t feel the need to be sexual right away, but feel the desire.

7. You are able to look this person in the eye comfortably.

8. The love you have for this person is an extremely intense type of love.

Be sure to trust your heart and know that what you are feeling is real.


The Laws of Attraction: How to Attract the Things You Want

Our thoughts and feelings are physical energy. What we think and feel comes right back to us. This is what we call “The Law of Attraction.”
It’s important to always feel gratitude and love of everything you have. You have a lot to be thankful for! Be sure to count your blessings every single day. When you realize what you have, and show gratitude, you just keep on getting more.
Here are some steps for attracting the things that you want:
1. First you must be able to quiet your mind
We all get busy sometimes. It is so important to sit down for 15-20 mins and meditate. While you do this, be sure you are releasing all thoughts or feelings. You should feel like you just woke up when you come out of your meditation. Your mind should be clear and you should have only feelings of love and gratitude. It may take some practice, so be sure to do this everyday.

2. Clear Intentions– You must have clear intentions for what you want. Write it down, write a letter to god, or make a list. These are all good ways of setting intention.

3.Following your Heart– Wake up everyday, and only do what you love. Whatever it takes, you need to go through your day only doing what you love. Our guides guide us through love, so you must always follow in love. As long as you are following your heart, you won’t fail, you won’t fall, you will only achieve greatness!

4. Show Gratitude– Thank the universe for everything you have. While you are thanking the universe be sure to feel the gratitude you have for all of your blessings. This will only help you attract more of the good things that you have.

5. Put Energy into What You Love– Newton’s Law States that when we put energy into something it moves. That same law also applied to the things in our lives that we want to see materialize. If you want your business to attract a lot of energy, put a lot of your loving energy into it. People who are attracted to love will come in large masses to you as clients. The more love you put into it, the more people will come.
It’s all about Love!

This method is very easy to put to work, and once you start using it you should see some results within a few weeks. Good Luck!

Steps to an Abundant Life


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Here are the steps to an abundant life. We should all have everything we want and desire. This age of working too hard to get a mediocre lifestyle is over. In this new age that we are coming into, we are learning that it’s ok to get what you want out of life, and do everything you want to do. I encourage everyone to follow these 5 steps, so that you too, can get everything you want out of life. 1. Set Intention Tell the universe what you want out of life. Write it down in the order that you want it to happen. Maybe you want a new car or a big house. Write it down! Never worry about how it will happen or how you will get it. Only worry about what it is that you want. 2. Raise Vibration, Get Happy! Raising vibration is the most effective way to change your life. When you are always happy, and excited about what’s coming up, you will manifest what you want more effectively. Sometimes the things you want will take time, so don’t get discouraged. The best ways to raise vibration is to go outside, play around children, laugh, only do things that you love. 3. Stop Worrying. For most of us, worry is a large, and unnecessary part of our lives. Remember, there is no reason to worry. Worrying never did anything for anyone! Worrying actually makes the problem worse, so stop worrying and enjoy this day. If you ever catch yourself in a cycle of worry, think about all of the things you are thankful for. 4. Believe that you are worth it. Good things come to those who believe. Well, actually those who believe they deserve the best things in life get them. It’s that simple! If you don’t feel like you deserve a new car, you won’t be able to manifest it. Many of us grew up with the notion that the things that we want are unattainable because they are too expensive, and it would be silly to think that we could ever deserve something like that. This way of thinking keeps you at a low level…. Stop it right now!!!!! You deserve anything you want, so go out and get it! 5. Gratitude. Once you have revived that thing you desire, be grateful. Feel the feeling of gratitude. Gratitude always brings more “stuff.” Always feel gratitude all day long, everyday. You have a lot to be thankful for!

How to get the Best Out of Your Psychic Reading


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I recently received a yelp review from, Kate K. of Pasadena, CA. She was a recent client that attended one of my group sessions a while back. She brings up a good point about writing down some secret questions before your reading! You don’t have to show them to me, I will just answer them for you.

“Hillary picked up on some interesting things about my grandfather who had passed. things that I had completely forgotten until she mentioned them!
It’s very important to have formulated and written down questions before going into a reading. I was in a group reading with three other people and I was the only one who had questions written on a piece of paper, in my purse. Hillary kept coming back to me. She was spot on about many details of my grandfathers, who had passed, and she told me something another (very well known) medium had told me 6 months prior – the exact thing!
I think she is excellent…..but part of it is up to the client to be very aware and have questions in mind.”

Would you rather do something you love? Taking the LEAP.


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The question is always this:

I’ve always dreamed of doing something I love, but I’m afraid to take the LEAP.


I always tell my clients… “If your heart is telling you to go after your dreams then do it!”

It’s hard to imagine that you can quit your job, set your intentions on doing what you love, and the rest will take care of itself. Well, it will! If you have faith and love what you are doing, the money will become a byproduct of  that which you have put all of your hopes and dreams into.


“How do I pay my bills?” “Where is the money going to come from?” “How do I know I will make enough money?”

The answer to that question is easy to explain, but hard to understand. If you are on your path you will always have abundance. That’s right…. You’re gonna be rich! You will just need to trust your heart. You are literally being guided by spirits on the other-side that want you to only do what you love every day. If you want to sit in the park all day and feed pigeons, or if you have a lifetime goal of becoming the fastest basket weaver in the world….. all you have to do is trust.

Set your intentions on what you want. Don’t focus on “how” you will get it, focus on “WHAT.” One way or another you will get what you want. If you are afraid or doubting, ask your higher guidance for help. They want you to love life, and they won’t let you fall!


“So how do I take the leap?” “When is it safe?”

You will need to set an intention. Once you do that, everything will come together to make that intention happen. If you aren’t happy at your job and you have to force yourself to go there everyday, you are wasting your life. Eventually, by the laws of the universe, the thing that you hate so much will fall away. That which does not serve us, our souls, our growth, have no place in our lives. We need to start and end our days with love, and confidence. You will never fail if you take a LEAP with love and faith in your heart. You must always feel that what you are doing in this world is the reason you are here.

Do you want to live to pay bills or do you want to do only what you love?

To do your work with love, that is the most important thing!


Are you an “Empath?”


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The official definition of an Empath is “An Empath is a person with a preternatural ability to apprehend the emotional state of another individual.”

Empaths are human sponges, absorbing everything around them. Empaths are highly sensitive people. They tend to have a lot of food allergies, and have sensitivities to certain materials and chemicals. Many Empaths experience things like chronic fatigue, environmental sensitivities, or unexplained aches and pains daily. They take those feelings into their own energy fields and carry them around all day. This is why it is common for Empaths to experience fatigue throughout the day. Perhaps this is why they choose to spend more time alone, and avoid large groups of people. They need time to clear out their energy, and recharge.

Empaths tend to be the people that friends, family, and even strangers go to to unload their problems. In some cases the problem unloading can manifest as bullying.

They have the innate sense of deciding whether someone is being honest with them or not. They can always tell, and feel what others are thinking.

They will often take on other peoples worries, and carry the weight of the world’s problems on their shoulders. They tend to be worriers, and worry about things that they have no control over. This tends to be a problem for them, as they will over extend themselves to try and heal everyone that they can, expending their own energy to do so.

Empaths are very noise sensitive, and often prefer to sit in silence. Noise can be too overbearing and disturbing for them. It may distract them from their thinking process or they just find it irritating.

Empaths often have ongoing digestive problems, such as IBS and ulcers. The reason for this is because they receive most of their information from their solar plexus chakra, which often becomes blocked. Lower back troubles are also a common ailment of Empaths. Grounding will often correct any back troubles, as Empaths are naturally ungrounded.

As a result of their sensitivities, these people tend to be drawn to holistic therapies, and metaphysical healing. These are the only treatments that tend to be agreeable to them.

Empaths usually prefer to be vegetarians, or vegans. The reason for this is because they can feel the vibrations of the animal that they are consuming. Sometimes it will leave them with a feeling of anxiety or fear. These are the feelings that may have been left behind from the animal’s death.

Empaths are able to develop strong connections with animals. They are very good animal communicators, and often times prefer animals as friends over people. Having a pet or being around animals is essential for an Empath.

Empaths are usually creative geniuses. They, most often, have the ability to create and configure amazing works of art, and have endless creative talents. They are usually good at everything, and just know how to do anything. However, they will never admit to knowing everything or being a genius.

It is a must for an Empath to always be stimulated by what they are doing. For this reason, it is hard for them to do the same thing for a long time. They get distracted or bored easily and go on to do something else more stimulating.

These people, must have careers that they love. They will often find themselves jumping from one career to another because they are always looking to try something new. It is possible however for an Empath to find a career and stick with it for a lifetime.

Empaths are very curious about the world. They will find themselves questioning and reading everything they can to answer their many questions. For the Empath, having unanswered questions can be frustrating, and they will need to find the answers to their questions quickly.

Empths are naturally born to be free. They will never let anyone dictate their time or control them in the workplace. Typically they choose to be entrepreneurs, creators, and healers of the world. It’s hard for them to work in an environment that has many rules, and imposes on their freedom. They are their own person and often choose not to be part of a rigid workplace.

Empaths have a really hard time watching violent films or television shows. Some prefer not to watch television or movies at all. In many cases some films or television shows may be too loud or jarring to their sensitive hearing.

During meditation Empaths will see colors, and often times animals. Most Empaths will usually have links with Native American Heritage, and usually have spirit guides, or groups of spirit guides that are Native American.

It is possible to learn how to use your sensitivities as healing tools. With some time and experience, you can turn your obstacles into gifts.


Did you know….. You’re Amazing!


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You are infinite love, and all possibility! You are not just a body, you are infinite consciousness. All that is, has been, and ever will be. You have lived many lives, and have done many things that, in one way or another, contributed to the person you are today. You are a collection of many experiences, and contain an unlimited knowledge. You are the creator of your own life, and have incredible power. You have the ability to create the life you desire. You are deserving, and capable of achieving unlimited abundance, and happiness. You are always surrounded by love. You are always being guided. You are never alone.

Your physical body is surrounded by your giant energy field that flows out of the top of your head, down and up through your body. It is literally light, made up of photons, and electromagnetic energy. This electromagnetic energy has the ability to record learned experiences, just like a cassette tape, or a CD. Your past lives are all recorded within this electromagnetic field. Therefore you came into this life with a million or so years of learned experiences. Some of us instinctively know how to draw, or play the piano. We all have these gifts that we just “know.” Sometimes we will choose only to learn new gifts, in a particular life, rather than ones we already “know.”

Being human is the easiest way to gain more knowledge. Your body works in such a way, so that you are better able to obtain this knowledge through your senses. Your brain, heart, and muscles, all work together, with your points of energy, to receive the new information and store it in your energy field. Once this information is stored it can be used over and over again, and built upon to obtain more information.